— The Atlas of Popephoenix

Day 105: Pin-up Girl

I love women with natural hair, especially dreads. This is a known fact. There’s something about a woman with this hair style that drives me wild. Mainly because I’ve noticed that women with dreads are usually really strong women and I’m definitely attracted to strong women. I was raised by a strong woman (Shout to my momma) grew up around strong woman (Shout to Mama RIP) and I hang out with a bunch of strong women (shout out to all my female homies).

To me dreads are sexy. Long, short, curled or braided. Loose and wavy or rolled up in a bun, a dreaded woman can have her way with me. (damn I think I’m giving away too much on this post) Beyond that I love to play in a woman’s hair, running my fingers through their locks is a big turn on I can’t get from a woman with a weave… Which is another post entirely… (coming soon) So if you’re reading this and you got locks, Holla at your boy! I love dreaded women so much I have bestowed upon them the rank of Plus 2. What’s a Plus 2?

A Plus 2 is a woman who is automatically granted a bonus two points to your hot scale for something about their physical appearance. So if you’re a 5 you get bumped up to a seven. Everyone has a preference that automatically draws them to the opposite sex. For some people its BATs, for others its a phat bottom, a gap in their teeth, sexy eyes or maybe its their job/car, everyone has their own preference. Mine for along time was Asian girls. (prepares for all the evil looks from the black girls out there)

Look, it was my preference at the time and although they were my most desired woman, I didn’t date them exclusively. Actually, I’ve only dated a few to be honest, mainly because black girls are my first choice. But it was something about a hot Asian girl that intrigued me and made me want to have them. They were the first Plus 2′s and girls, they’ve been bumped.

I know. This is kinda sexist. I accept that. But at the same time this is some man shit. This concept was born out of man talk and discussion. It is what it is and its honest. Now with that being said, growing up through this concept has lead me to date some good and bad woman. It will probably lead me to date some more wrong women. But I go where my attraction leads me, it makes life exciting.

If I had to do it all again I would easily. I’m not proud of every decision I’ve made in my life but I’m not ashamed either. I live by a couple rules and one of those rules are “If I can’t tell my mom about it, I really shouldn’t be doing it.” Like I said my mom is tough and she could probably still bust my ass if she wanted. I’m out!

Viva La Dread Chicks!!